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Rebuilding a friendship?
I’m 16/f and so I had this saxophone teacher for three years. I was never super serious about saxophone...I really enjoyed playing and all but I certainly didn’t intend to pursue it as a career. He knew that and I knew that. Acting and singing are what I really love to do but this guy and I became really great friends, as artists and just in general. I saw him once a week at the music studio (occasionally we held lessons at his house) and we made plans to see a movie, but it never took off.
Well, back in April my mom told me that we couldn’t afford sax lessons anymore. I was sad to break off the friendship but I had no choice. My dad and I had plans to break it off formally. But things never took off and my dad just ended up giving him a phone call. I got an email from him later saying that we could still be friends but sooooooo much has happened since then in my life. I’ve been insanely busy and haven’t been able to keep in contact with him.
It’s been more than six months since I last talked to him on the Internet. I’ve got his MySpace and I just realized that I really miss being friends with him, and I want it back. He was like one of the coolest people I knew. But I’m afraid that it’s too late and the friendship has died already.
Also, since he’s no longer my sax teacher and he’s an adult, I’m really not sure what would be an appropriate way to get things together again...
I’m thinking about writing a Myspace email. But how does one go about writing a note to a former sax teacher about that?
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I agree with the person below. Just write him on myspace about how you have been really busy lately and you haven't been able to keep in contact with him but that you would still like to be friends. Don't stress too much about it, if he reply's back then thats good, if he doesn't then you'll be fine. So don't go crazy over someone in that past because there is a reason they never made it to your future. So good luck and I hope everything works out!
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Just tell him that your sorry for not staying in contact but you were just really busy tell him that your friendship means a lot and that you would like to if he is still up for it hang out and just talk and become good friends again thats the simpilest way to tell him. good luck:)
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