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boyfriend,
okay so this might end up being long so yeah. but my boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months now and I just kind of see myself picking out his flaws all the time, he tells me how his ex girlfriends broke his heart and how he got depressed blah blah blah. I mean he treats me like pretty much perfect and I really really like him, I'm just confused, and need advice. it seems like I'm drifting away from my friends because of him. I want to stay with him but I'm afraid if I stay with him too long it will be worse in the end. Theres way more to it but I won't write more, thanks in advance!
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You need to sit down and have a little
talk with him. Make sure he is over this
ex girlfriend. If he says that he is, you
need to let him know that you aren't her
and you don't want to hear about her all
the time.
He may not even realize he is doing it.
He may be doing it because he
is afraid of being hurt again. But the
truth of it is, dating anyone is a taking
a risk of being hurt. You can't guarantee
him it won't happen to him again with you.
Drifting away from friends while dating
is normal. Just make special time for
them and talk about something other
than your boyfriend or you may drive
them nuts! :)
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take a break ask him if you two could just spend a few days apart because you really need to think about some things but mention that you dont want to break up and tell him not to freak out just that you want to think about a few things and then talk to your friends ask them how they feel about your relationship and just think things over do you really feel like he is seperating you from your friends or do you feel like your being seperated from him.
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