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ex boyfriend and friends with benefits.


Question Posted Sunday November 23 2008, 1:12 am

15/f
i went out with this kid last year for about 2 months. i broke up with for no specific reason, i just didn't feel a connection. now were really close friends, and we hang out a lot and alone sometimes. we started hooking up when we hung out.. and we agreed were just friends with benefits. he fingered me last weekend, and i had no problem with that.. but i know he likes me and that i don't feel the same way, and he understands that. is it wrong of me to fool around with him as friends if he still has feelings for me?


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thelaura answered Sunday November 23 2008, 1:56 pm:
Yes. You know it's hurting him - so put a stop to it please.

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GilbertMar answered Sunday November 23 2008, 12:03 pm:
Edit;

If you want more then a yes or a no, then maybe you should ask more then a yes or no question. But really, do you need more then yes or no? You're playing with this guys affections, if this were a guy doing this to a girl, there would be no question here at all, would there? If you felt you were doing the right thing, you would not be asking.

Giving ratings based on not giving explanations when you don't ask for them is wrong, how would you feel in school if your teacher graded you on a true or false question, by whether you explained your answer when she didn't ask you too.





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Yes

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