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14/F I have a question for all guys:
I am 14/F. I am single and I am pretty popular at school. A guy friend of mine told me he had a crush on me for the longest time, and he never asked me out. When I asked why he never did, he said it was because I am Student Body President of my school. (I am also one of the brightest kids in my Acc. classes, and I am kinda pretty I guess.
I have TONS of guy friends... but how come nobody asks me out?
Are guys intimidated by me?
Why do guys get so easily intimidated?
WHat can I do to show them I am not scary and that I WANT them to make a move?
I know this is a lot, but I need to know.
Thanks a bunch!! XD
Lyssa
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It sounds as though your status and considerable popularity with teachers and students has intimidated some people. The best thing you can do is show that you include everyone into your circle and want more friends. Start seeking out friends and speaking to guys and girls both who people would think you wouldn't.
Show how sincere you are and approachable and your problem will be licked. As for this guy you mentioned apologize if you came off as unapproachable in the past as that's not how you are at all. Tell him thanks for bringing it to your attention as you would hate to be viewed as a snot or a bitch just for being president etc.
Then, tell him you would love to go out with him if he's still interested. Problem number 2 solved. If you don't want to date him just continue being nice not kiss but but nice to everyone you know or don't know and then they'll see you're anything but an ice princess. Good luck and do be sure to let me know if you wind up dating him. It seems to be what he wants--reassurance and a solid answer.
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