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we need more passion, i guess you could say.
i'm 15 and have been dating my boyfriend (16) for a year and a month. i love him so much but we just had this talk about how like things have kinda changed and we need more passion and stuff. i'm like freaking out because i don't know what to do. i don't want to break up and he said he doesn't either but how do you bring passion back to a relationship?
i know i'm young, please just help me if you can. i really don't want to lose him. how should i fix this?
thanks so much =] this is just crazy to me because we've never even had any problems before this so thank you again.
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well i think we could all use a little more detail. The first thing I think is on everyone's mind is have you guys had sex yet? Becuase If you haven't had sex yet, then he may be trying to hint to you that he is ready for the next step. Then you gotta figure out whether or not you are ready for that. Take away the idea that you don't want to lose him. It's your body and you do what you wish with it, screw him if he want's to leave you for someone who will please his little penis...Now on the other hand...if you are sexually active, or assuming that you are not and that he is not refering to that by anymeans. Then you know all you have to do is think back to the stuff you used to do, what all attracted you both to one another? what all did you used to do for fun? what all gave you that sensual feeling? What are you willing to explore? what is romance to you and what is romance to him? Did he see or read something that made him feel this way? If so what was it, maybe you could see it read it or listen to it with him and find out what he is interested in. If you answer these quetions and then apply what you have learned then you will have the passion you are looking for. peace :)
ps...go to the website of the guy that wrote men are from mars and women are from venus, he gives a lot of helpful tips for people who need to restore passion and romance! :)
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This is so funny, because this is just what I keep telling my boyfriend of two years that we need more passion. I'm sorry, but I cannot tell you how to bring passion into your lives, because it's a feeling. You can't just do something and passion enters your heart. All I can tell you, is that if you spend too much time together, passion can run out, because you're around each other constantly.
So if you do this, take some time apart, without splitting up to see if you still want to work things out. After that time apart, your heart should know what you want, just talk to each other.
If you guys do have a lot of time apart, try spending more time together, of course not too much. Maybe that should help you guys have brighter feelings for each other and even gain more respect for each other.
One more thing, avoid any negative thoughts or fights. Make sure nothing gets in the way of your good fun :)
Good luck and I hope I helped
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