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Confident with every guy.. except my crush
Hi, I am 14/F
I am a veryyyyyy confident person. I hang out with guys allllll the time, which is part of the reason I am currently single. (I swear they think I am one of the boys. Plus they are intimidated by me being Student Body President) ANyways, I act completely chill around all of them, except for a certain boy named Don. I have had the biggest crush on him for 2 years. I get really nervous around him and I can't think of anything to say. His friend, however, is also someone I like. I have known him since 4th grade. We have been best friends ever since. I have a HUGE crush on him, and I don't get weird around him at all.
I guess my question(s) are:
1. Why am I nervous around Don and not his friend?
2. What can I do to not be as nervous?
3. Do guys really find being Student Body President that intimidating??
Please help me woth any of these questions.
Thanks,
Lys
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I think you're nervous around Don because usually when you crush on someone, you worry about everything. Your hair, your make up, even your breath and that's completely understandable. I assume the reason you are not nervous around Don's friends is because you don't like them in a crushing way.
Being nervous, unfortunately, is inevitable. No matter how much you try to avoid it, it still happens and it sort of relates to having butterflies in your stomach. All I can really advise you to do is stay relaxed and calm about everything.
I think most guys would find it intimidating that you are student body president because you have so much power over your peers. Being president shows that you are a real leader and that you have potential to succeed. If I were you, I'd find it flattering:]
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I think the reason your more nervous around Don is because you like him more and dont want him to think your stupid so you dont say much or act confident when your around him and your not nervous around his friend because you have known him better and you probably talk to him like everyday and don it just someone you dont get to say a lot to.
Well to stop being nervous you have to make yourself believe that you really like DOn and just start talking to him more treat him like you treat your guy friends at first and then start making him realize that you like him and treat him like you would treat a special person in your life so basically talking and hanging out with him is the key to getting confident around him.
And lastly most guys dont care but some do get intimidated because they feel that a student body president is a little more tough and smart and so that kind of makes them feel a little less confident compared to you but im sure that your guy friends will stop feeling that way once they get use to the idea that you are student body president.
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