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i can only have awkward conversations after this hook up
ok so im a boy whose 14 in 8th grade. i met this cute 9th grader one friday at lunch at school. the next day we hung out with a few other people and ended up with a 20 minute h/u. everything was going fine until i tried talking to her on aim. ANYTIME i say ANYTHING bascially she makes it totally awkward, and when shes not making it completely awkward, shes making an excuse to leave (shower, hw etc...) but then she stays on aim and facebook after that. also shes the one who starts our conversations sometimes, so i dont think shes just trying to avoid me. she said she just wants to be friends now, but doesnt seem like it when we talk.
(btw im 2 days older then her)
i need to know whats going on here! my mind is going to blow!
does she still like me? or does she just have too many other people to get to on aim or facebook that she cant keep up normal responses to the things i say. (and also im not the awkward one here-ex: "omg it is soo cold in my room! im freezing my hands off!" ad she'd say something like, "well move"
but not say anything else after i type like 5 sentances)
ARG i dont know what to do!
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hmmm, i dont know for sure but maybe you should talk to her about it like in person. and maybe she responds like that sometimes because she really likes you and doesnt want to say something stupid, so she says something simple. sometimes girls do stuff like that. you should deff talk to her tho just to make sure.
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it sounds lyk she just wants to be your friend, and it seems like sometimes you might push things too far so she avoids you in the fact that maybe you make it a bit awkward for her. since you obviously like her but shes only interested in being friends. so she still wants to be friends with you! but you have to stay on that friend level. and sometimes you push above that and so she feels uncomfortable and ignores you. ive been in a situation like this before where i hooked up with a boy and thought i liked him, then we continued talking and i realized that he was just like a good friend and when he would try to hangout with me, like one on one dinner/movie type "dates" or act like he liked me i would kinda avoid him..
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