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Q: Heyy,

I'm having a New Year's party and I have NO idea what we should do. Its going to be a girl/boy party & we are all 9th graders & there are going to be 2 juniors. we don't want to play 7 minutes in heaven or anything like that, just like other fun games. Thanks! :)
play drinking games!

Q: so.. for the past week and a half i haven't been able to sleep. i mean, i've always had trouble with sleeping at night (not being able to fall asleep.. i have adhd) but i've been having really bad dreams. also, i haven't been eating much at all and i've lost about 5 pounds. a lot of people have noticed me being tired at school. and my mom and best friend said that it looks like i've lost weight. could this be from stress? or being worried? (i've been somewhat scared lately because my boyfriend and i have started talking about having sex for the first time)

i'm 16 and am a female. i'm 5'6" and weigh 115, and don't really want to lose much more wight, at all.

thank you! :)
it could most deffientally be from stess, and from being worried. if something is bothering you er whatever that could be it too. like if you were depressed or just have soo much on your mind thats probally the reason to it.
hope that helped :]

Q: ok so im a boy whose 14 in 8th grade. i met this cute 9th grader one friday at lunch at school. the next day we hung out with a few other people and ended up with a 20 minute h/u. everything was going fine until i tried talking to her on aim. ANYTIME i say ANYTHING bascially she makes it totally awkward, and when shes not making it completely awkward, shes making an excuse to leave (shower, hw etc...) but then she stays on aim and facebook after that. also shes the one who starts our conversations sometimes, so i dont think shes just trying to avoid me. she said she just wants to be friends now, but doesnt seem like it when we talk.

(btw im 2 days older then her)

i need to know whats going on here! my mind is going to blow!
does she still like me? or does she just have too many other people to get to on aim or facebook that she cant keep up normal responses to the things i say. (and also im not the awkward one here-ex: "omg it is soo cold in my room! im freezing my hands off!" ad she'd say something like, "well move"
but not say anything else after i type like 5 sentances)

ARG i dont know what to do!
hmmm, i dont know for sure but maybe you should talk to her about it like in person. and maybe she responds like that sometimes because she really likes you and doesnt want to say something stupid, so she says something simple. sometimes girls do stuff like that. you should deff talk to her tho just to make sure.
hope i helped :]

Q: i'm going to learn how to snowboard this winter, but i need to know where i can get CHEAP snowboarding pants. 16/female. thanks!
try pac sun, on theyre web site its under snow and they have a bunch of differnt snowboarding shit, or some other out-doorsy store should have them. or even if you have like snow pants just wear those for snowboarding.
hope i helped :] have fun shredinnn!

Q: How do people stay dedicated to starving themselves?
im not too possitive, but i guess it might depend on why theyre starving themselves, like if you were to not eat because you thought you were fat, then the person probally reminds themself how fat they are until they just dont wanna eat ever again or something im not really sure sorrry. but i hope that helped a little

Q: 15/f
Never made out with anyone before. Only pop kissed. So, i asked how to make out on here before and i got a bunch of different answers and none are exactly alike and i want one way to do it so i know how. I am confused on which one me and my boyfriend will be doing. What do i do? Please tell me what to do or how to make out. I want to know what i'm doing and i don't want to freak out when it's time. When he starts making out with me, i want to do it right so he's impressed and he's not like "Whoa, what are you doing?" Please help!
okay sorry if this is kinda long but...
i just made out for my first time recentally too.
i probally asked a million people for advice and i didnt get an awnser i was satisfyed with either lol. but i was so nervous at first but when he started to kiss me it just came naturally. he french kissed me and i did the same back. it was like i was scared for nothing. so much goes through your head now that makes you nervous but when it actually happend you just dont think and kinda just follow his lead. its alot easyer then you think i promisee.
hope i helped :]

Q: Okay, so I'm tired of having big boobs and no butt.
lol so is there a way that i could like make myself have more of a butt with a certain exercise?

im 16. by the way.
please help =]
im not sure if i know an excerise but if you want like i thick butt or thick thighs like girls on music videos, seriously sit on your ass all day and eat mcdonalds lol :]

Q: What are the common symptoms of pregnancy and when do the symptoms start happening? Thank you!
morning sickness, puking and headaces and such. but i sudgest to buy a pregnancy test !
good luck :)

Q: what are some cool, cute things i could use for my myspace url? if you need more information, then ask for it
am assuming your a girl ?
here are some ideas:
neverletgox3
'your name'loves you
skypinkkissesx3

Q: ok, im 16 years old and i have this girlfriend who two nights ago (the 28th) i had sex with without a condom... it didnt last very long and i pulled out before anything happend and made sure to do my best to not let anything get in, but im still nervous. her last period was sometime this month that ended around the 8th. can somebody please help me out here and give me some advice on what to do??
first of all, always use protection. And she wont know until the next time she has her period, which should be soon since its march and a new month and last month she got it in the begginng too. if you misses her period, then there is a very good chance shes pregnant. theres really no other way to tell unless she gets morining sickness or something but i guess you'll have to wait and find out. good luck !

Q: this guy likes me and we're sorta friends but all of his friends keep encouraging me to get with him but id ahat to do because i dont like him. i dont want to be mean
thannx
just talk to him when your alone, and tell him how all his friends were doing this and no offence but you like him as a friend but you just dont see him in more than a friend way. and tell him your sorry. then both of you can just stay friends without any pressure. hope i helped :)

Q: The girls at my school that get the most attention have full bosies. Like, thick legs and fat asses. I am like a stick and I want to know how to gain weight like them. What do I eat and how much? My dad is skinny and he can eat whatever and not gain anything. I think im the same way? I know a lot of girls would find this lucky but I hate it. I want the bodies of girls you see on music videos with bow wow and chris brown! HELP
okay so, you might be the same as your dad beacuse it runs in your genes and all. you dont want to gain to much weight because its unhealthy, but somethings you could do it exercise a little less and eat some helthey foods so you stay healthy, and then just eat alot of crap foods to to help gain the weight you want.

Q: Is it weird for girls to ask guys out?
Which do guys prefer?
Any opinion is appreciated.
Its not weird at all. go for it ! (:

Q: How do you know if a girl likes you and you are in 6th grade?

You may have seen my other question, but how do I gain confidence to talk to her? I get nervous even when I approach her. Also, I am only in 6th grade, just in case it might be vital information.

Here are my questions:
I am too shy to ask her so cross that out on your list, so how do I know if a girl likes me in 6th grade?

How do I gain the confidence to ask a girl out? Also, cross out in front of the mirror, because my family is always home, and I don't want them to know.
your not even old enough to be on this site.
your in 6th grade so what you think is a "girl friend" probally isnt. maybe you should have one of your friends ask her for your or something.

Q: I work out in the afternoon/evening.
Is it better to eat my big meal before or after working out?
Like or should I have a snack before or what?
Thanks!
If you eat before you workout, then you just burn calories from the meal you ate. if you dont eat your burn fat. so it would be better to eat the bigger meal after you workout. hope i helped (:

Q: I really love my boyfriend, but every time we make out it seems like we're just tongue wrestling. I've seen people make out, and it doesn't seem like we're doing it right. Can anyone help?
There really is no "right" way to kiss, so i cant really tell you if your doing it wrong or not. just be softer with your tounge and explore his mouth. have fun (:

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