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re-do on why do i feel this way question
sorry i wrote my question to quick. so my ex and i broke up halloween night. we have been talking a lot to work things out. we are on a break. we are also in a long distance relationship. we are passed the break up and why we did it and all the problems. we are working on the problems right now. but when im talking or texting him, i get sad because i get memories of us and i want things to go back to the way they were. he is a great guy and i was and still am very happy with him, even just talking to him makes me happy. i knw its normal but how do i explain it to him. he thinks that i just get sad thinking of him so why try to work things out and be together again. sorry to have to ask you again.
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Hi,
okay, I have a better understanding of what's going on with your situation now.
Tell him that he is not the reason that you are sad and that he is taking things the wrong way.
I think you explained your feelings to me perfectly. I would suggest that you do the same thing with him. Tell him how happy he makes you and you are so happy that you are working it out. He will understand perfectly what you are trying to say and I'm sure that that will put his mind at ease and make him very happy.
Sometimes it's good to bounce your feelings off someone else before you tell it to another person like you did with me.
You had the right answer all along. Just be honest with him sweetie and tell him how you feel. Everything will work out. Long distance relationships are hard from the jump. All you have is trust and the honesty to rely on. I hope I helped.
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Good luck,
Ediemarie
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