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crush on boy
16/f. I have a huge crush on this kid. I met him at a music honor society meeting at my school. We talked alot and found out that we actually play the same instrument and have alot in common. He knew who I was right away though because he knows my brother. Well, last night, we ended up at the same get-together of a mutual friends and we hung out the whole time even though we barely knew eachother. He is so sweet and cute and now I really like him. I flirted with him, and I got the feeling that he kinda liked me too because he would stand really close to me when talking to me and make any excuse to touch me. Example: he says: "I make all my new friends shake hands with me for 15 minutes." I say: "okay!" Result: Us holding hands for a long time.. haha. Also, putting his hand on my shoulder when saying somthing important, ect. So heres the problem: I have no classes with him, we're never at the same social gatherings (this was the first time), and I am not comfortable enough with our mutual friend to ask him to set us up. Music honor society meets like every 2 weeks only, so I'll see him this wednesday, what should I do to make sure he remembers me or asks me to hang out or somthing? I really like him, but I have to make every meeting with him count!
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Girl you better get him before it's to late! This wednesday is your day to shine, YOU ask him out face to face, be completley open and honest. Exchange email and phone numbers.
Then later on maybey the next day or two if he doesn't call you CALL HIM. guys loose stuff such as numbers. (but don't call every minute) let him breathe a little. Lol Love is so amazing who knows maybey he's the one!
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it seems like he likes you to but dont try to rush anything.
maybe get his number and text him. that would be the smart thing to do. hang out wiht him at the meeting as much as you can and try to subtly hint that you like him.
if he likes you too, im sure he will continue flirting with you and such. go with it and maybe if he doesnt say anything, at the end of the meeting say something like "we should hang out sometime." hope everything works out!
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You can always say that you enjoy talking with him about whatever you have in common like music and ask him if he'd like to keep in touch outside of the music honor society meetings. If he does, then you should ask him for his email address (that way you don't look too pressed to talk to him). However, if he offers to give you his phone number instead or with his email address, you know that he probably likes you as much as you like him and then you two can talk whenever. Good luck on Wednesday! Let me know how it turns out.
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