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I like my guyfriend but now he wont talk to me!
Im a 16 year old girl and the guy I like is 17. We've known eachother since I was 7, but he moved away when i was 10. He always used to ask me out and then he got a girlfriend and didnt talk to me for a few years... then i went to see his cousins and he was there with his gf and he wouldnt even look at me. The next time i went he was drunk and hed broken up with her and he was asking me to go out with him, but i didnt know if he meant it since he was drunk, so i turned him down but i said i still wanted to be friends. After that i didnt talk to him for awhile, and the only time he would talk to me was on msn when he was drunk. This really upset me, and then i just got mad and i told his cousin that i didnt like him anymore. I didnt really mean it but she TOLD him and now when i saw him again he wouldnt even look at me and he definately doesnt talk to me anymore. I just want him to talk to me again, but i dont know if i should apologize, just ignore him until hes ready or try to make him jealous or what?
Sorry this is soo long!
and Thanks!
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I'm gonna straight up tell you that this guy seems like the biggest asshole. I know you like him, but let's be honest ... do you REALLY like him or do you like the IDEA of him ?
I was in a similar situation with a guy, and I understand how hard it is to get over it and move on since you want what you can't have, or something along those lines, yuh know? You feel like a backup plan and that's not okay. You need to find someone who will treat you right and want to be with you sober or not, and you deserve a person who is going to ask you out and MEAN IT. I'm 16, and my boyfriend is amazing. I finally got over the "asshole" who tried to keep me hanging on because he thought he could fall back on me when he needed the support, but you have to realize that he is not the only guy on the planet. Do you honestly and truthfully want to keep hanging onto a person who treats you horribly? Let him talk to you if he wants to, hes missing out on a great girl anyways. You have absolutley NOTHING to apologize for, so there's no need for that, trust me. Just try to move on, no matter how hard that may sound [and i know it sounds really hard, but if you actually try i can guarentee a PHENOMINAL result, take it from me, i would know :)] You can do much, much better :] and you deserve that !
good luck, hope I helped, hang in there :] ! xxo
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Hey there,
okay in my opinion I could be totally wrong but im going to tell you what I think,remember though this is up to you.
anyway,basicly it looks to me like this guy only talks to you when it is conviniant for him.
he totally blanked you whe he had a girlfriend,soon as shes gone whos he come crawling to?you.
same thing aswell about him only talking to when drunk.conviniant for him.
don't let yourself be that girl. trust me Ive been there it sucks and its so hard to break away from,dont let him have that like "hold" il call it,I was in a similar situation to this before but some what worse. i realised to late and wasted so much time liking him.
you deserve better honestly.
you had a right to be mad you were upset! at any cost it should be HIM apologising it shows how much you means by him talking to you when drunk.
you havt nothing to be sorry for,sure you said you didn't like him but you were mad.
I really don't think this guy is worth it,but this is only what im interpertating from reading this from my own point of view it could be a completely different story in which case,apologise to him and say you were upset and didnt mean it if he doesnt accept?his loss. he needs to grow up and let go and just accept a persons apology, never do the whole jealousy thing it almost always backfires and makes it worse.
anyway hope I helped,and that this works out =]
good luck
much <3
Jess [15/f]
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