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Question Posted Sunday November 16 2008, 7:18 pm

What do guys mean when they say don't worry I know when to pull out for using unprotected sex? Can they really know when?

And what do you people mean by saying going in all the wayy????

Im 14 f. And still a virgin, but I have a bf that wants to do things.....

Please help me!
Thanks and I appreicate it

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ashleycandigit answered Wednesday November 19 2008, 1:37 pm:
you are only fourteen. sex is a very big thing, and you need to be sure that you want to be with this guy forever if you're going to do something with him that could cost you your life, and most young relationships don't last. ask your boyfriend this... "are we ready for the responsibility to have a baby if something goes wrong?" when a guy says that they will pull out, they do know what they are talking about. they have a feeling that they are going to have an orgasm, and when they get that feeling, semen is released which carries sperm, and that is what can cause pregnancy. be sure, if you're going to have sex, you use a latex condom because if the sex is unprotected, precum is still released from the penis during sexual intercourse and that can also cause pregnancy. also, stds are very common, so condoms also help lower your risk of getting an std, or sexually transmitted disease. my advice, don't be sexually active. there are other ways to have fun, but if you choose to be sexually active, know that there can be consequences if you don't take the right precautions.

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karenR answered Tuesday November 18 2008, 2:20 pm:
"What do guys mean when they say don't worry I know when to pull out for using unprotected sex?"

It means they just want sex and don't understand
the consequences that could result. The are
immature and not ready for sex. DO NOT EVER
fall for that line. Especially from a young
teenage boy. It is very hard for them to stop
even if they know its coming. Be responsible
and never have unprotected sex, no matter how
much you may want to please any guy. If you
get pregnant they can walk away and go on
with their life as usual. You can't. You
get pregnant and your life is changed forever,
weather you keep the baby or not.

Going all the way means having sex.

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Cassiopea answered Tuesday November 18 2008, 1:49 pm:
If you are going to have sex do not have it unprotected! If you cannot afford the birth control you shouldn't be having sex. Some guys can know when to pull out but you never want to trust that because of the pre cum and because a lot of guys get so into it that they forget. Do not risk getting prego at this age. babies cost way more than birth control and you don't know if your guy will stick around. Do not let him stick it in if he doesn't have anything on! he might say it feels better and I don't doubt that but it is not worth the risk believe me!

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chell08 answered Tuesday November 18 2008, 5:50 am:
Dont TRUST that brcause there is always pre cum and they may not always know when they will

it depends on what u r talking about

dont 14 is way to young to be doing that save it til u really know he is the right one and if he doesnt understand that hun he is not worth it

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