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My best friend, a bitch?
17/f
I have a close group of best friends & I think I favour one more so than the others, except now she has started to argue with me about everything & ditch me for some other girl. I have tried to talk to her about it and say that this isn't know things usually are between us but she just doesn't get it; consequently, she started to bring up a bunch of topics of how I 'get on her nerves' .. except her reasons all basically relate to me being stronger academically than her, which I don't flaunt. I just don't get it.
I'm pretty sure she will end up completely ditching me, then I'm moving away next year so I guess I'll never see her again. Is this normal? I feel so frustrated by this whole situation. I don't have many friends at my current school so I couldn't imagine losing another.
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There can be many reasons why she is doing this. It seems pretty normal though. Lots of girls do that even with their best friends. This may sound really sad but sometimes girls want different friends because they got bored of their old ones whether they admit it or not. I'm not saying thats your case but its what happens. Another reason is how you said that she said, "you get on my nerves" and it all related to to being stronger academically than her. It happens, she might get the feeling she isn't as smart as you or something like that. But if she doesn't want to be hanging around with you, then you shouldn't be around her either. You can always make new friends, she did. So you can too. When something bad happens something good usually comes from it somehow. So think about it. Maybe you are better off without her. Don't be a jerk to her though. Still be nice and everything but find new friends. Good luck! I hope everything goes well.
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actually it sounds pretty normal..maybe shes pushing you away so that it wont hurt as much when you move.
maybe shes trying to find new friends before so that she wont be alone.
hope i helped.
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