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I miss being strong


Question Posted Saturday November 15 2008, 8:12 pm

When I was younger, I used to be of such unshakeable faith in myself. No matter how hard things got, or whatever befell me, I always kept trying.

I'm still trying, but I lost so much faith my ability to succeed. And I'm worried I'm becoming a jaded cynic.

How, besides actually really succeeding at something, can I regain my confidence and faith in myself?


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azndude09 answered Sunday November 15 2009, 7:37 pm:
Get a fresh start when you wake up in the morning with positive thoughts. Everyday is a new day so it's your chance to start over. When you tell yourself everyday you can do it, you will accomplish something. Maybe you just got so use to being energetic that you began to lose passion in what you are doing. just motivate yourself more and think positive.

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kiran answered Monday November 17 2008, 12:23 am:
Ok well the first thing you are gonna have to do is believe in yourself. I have lost faith in myself before and I had low self esteem. You just need to think higher of yourself, but not too high. you don't want to put people down.

Look at other people around you. Think about those people that seem hopeful about their future, expectations, dreams and faith. They will boost you up and you should hang around them more.

Wake up fresh imagining new opportunities everyday.

Work slowly but steadily

Get training and don't give up.

Decide to ride on top of life! Accept it and embrace it.

In other words all this is saying, don't give up and keep trying and look at the best of things. Its you that is making yourself lose faith. You can do it if you put your mind to it. Just look to the best of it and you'll be fine. Good luck!

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GilbertMar answered Sunday November 16 2008, 10:43 pm:
I know this is going to sound to easy and you'll probably just dismiss it, but here is the secret. Know your good.

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