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isn't there sumthing wrong?
This mite be long.
Ok well im 18 an I have a 16yo sister. She is a hoe my other sisters think it nd so do i. She has ranaway like 3 times and has been kawt having sex n her room by my mom. Wen she got kawt my mom did NOTHING at all. Then jus recently my mom saw hickeys all over her neck nd once again did NOTHING. Now yesterday my mom kawt her ditching school walkn wit sum 19yo so my mom made her get n the car then my sis jumped out to be wit the boy nd my mom jus lef her there for a day. The next day she calls my mom to get her and everysince then my mom has been kissn her ass. Why does my mom act like this if it was me I wud have alredy been kicked out. Nd I have a younger sister who is 14 jus started thee same HS won't she be a bad influence on her. Thanks
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Not sure, but. Is it possible that your sister was sexually abused and your mom knows about it?
Or maybe did your mom have you guys when she was really young? Maybe she was promiscuous when she was younger. And sometimes the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. It just doesn't fall to all the children.
In any event, sitting your mom down and telling her how this makes you feel is good advice and asking her about family counseling. Then telling your sister directly how this makes you feel and then asking her to go see a counselor with you and your mom and sister.
As a family; you and your younger sister need an explanation for this out of bounds behavior from your sister and you guys need to move past it in a healthy way if possible. If not them; just try to find out the source of the behavior in your sister's words at least so you can have some peace. And maybe then go see a counselor for yourself.
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I would sit your mom down and talk to her about it and let her know how you are feeling about the situation. Do you go to the same school as your sister?? Maybe you could go talk to her counselor anonymously. Maybe she has self esteem issues. Most girls her age try to hide it like that. If that doesn't work then I would sit her down and explain the consequences of her actions to her. Maybe she's just crying out for a different kind of attention from your mom. I would definitely sit your mom down and talk to her about it. Let me know how things go!
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