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Don't know how to tell him =/
Okay well my ex-boyfriend and me only broke up because of my parents but we still love each other but i told him its going to be a long time before we go out but now he wants to go out with this other girl and he asked me if it was okay and the only reason he was going out with her is because i said it was going to be along time before we go out.So of course i told him its okay i don't care if he wants to go out with him, but i really still love him and don't want him to go out with her because i'm almost able to date again but when he told me that it changed my mind on telling him that. What should I do? Should I just tell him that he should go out with him and forget about or should I tell him that I don't want him to go out with her? Thank you for helping me its really appreciated(:
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Just tell him straight up. Say im gonna be able to date again soon and i'd really apriciate it if you didnt get involved with someone else, because you might just miss your chance with me. Trust me i had the same problem and did the same thing, a week after i said it was ok ththe dated this girl i told him i'd be able to date and he said he already broke up with her cuz he missed me and didnt feel it was right to replace me.
Ooh. thts a good one, make him feel guilty by saying "please dont replace me..." haha jkjk
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Okay in this case i would confront my boyfriend about dating another girl and give your position on the situation. If you honestly dont like the fact he is going to be dating somebody else let him know and if he truly cares/respects you he wont. Also pose an alternative say for example he wants to date another girl than tell him it would only be fair for you to see someone else, and ask him how he would feel about that, if he fully is in love with you he will wait for you just remember that and then there will be no stress about either of you seeing other people because you will be waiting for one another.
One question, why do your parents not want you to date this individual? ( Ive been there with my parents and there reason for them not wanting me to date a certain guy was because of his drug habits, in the long run they were right. but it was something i had to figure out myself.)
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Brittni
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