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just one night?
Right, a few weeks ago i was at a party. The guy i like was there and we ended up making out. He poked me aswell. but now its like he wont talk to me. I really like him, and its really awquard at school cos we used to be good friends. All that night he was telling me he liked me, hugging me, kissing me and being really nice with me. But now its just like ?
What do i do? :S
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Of course he's going to be nice to you and tell you he likes you, when he only wants one thing from you- guys like him use compliments as bait. Like the person below said, guys like that find no reason to continue talking to a girl afterward. He does not see you as a friend, which is why he is no longer talking to you. Imagine going into a store to get something...a pack of gum. After you buy the pack of gum, are you thinking about going back to the same store to talk to the clerk and become friends with him/her? Of course not. Sorry to say, but in his eyes, you are the pack of gum. He got what he wanted, and to him, there's no sense in establishing anything else.
Now, this is where I diverge from the others. I really do not think you should make any effort at all to talk to him. Even if you see him at school, ignore him, or at least don't go out of your way to be nice. If he wants, he can make an effort to talk to you--and by the sound of it, he's not going to, so let it go. Let that night be the end of it. Guys like him are bad news. There are plenty of people-girls and guys- who are just like that. They will flatter you and try to make you feel special when they want you, and when they don't, they easily dispose of you as though you're some object. You KNOW you aren't an object to be toyed around with- don't let him play around with your emotions either. Surround yourself with good, honest people, and get rid of people like him that bring you pain.
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just consider what i have to say below not saying that this is the exact reason but in most cases ive seen/been in it is..
Hate to break it to you, but in this case the guy came to party with one thing on his mind most likely getting some. Most guys after they do or dont get what they want wont talk to the girl because they figure there is no need to, its the one tract mind working they live for the moment and dont think about the consequences.
ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION:
i would try initiating a conversation with him just about something like class work if you're in his class or ask hows he doing and if things go well from there tell him you miss hanging out with him as friends and maybe plan something for that weekend. if he still is acting weird and not speaking with you i say forget it, he isnt a true friend then and you know what he wanted besides your friendship.
GOOD LUCK,
i hope you can work your friendship out back to the way things use to be.
Brittni
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Ask him about him. It's the only way to find the real right answer.
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