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bringing him home to meet my family for the holidays..?
okay so thanksgiving and christmas are coming up soon and i really want to bring my boyfriend home with me. we've been dating for about 3 months now. i havent mentioned him to my family because im not sure where its going but id love to have him home with me for the holidays. the problems is, i go to school about 5 hours away from home and he goes to my school and lives about 20 minutes away. so there would be some traveling involved.. how should i bring this up to him? and do you guys think i should bring him home or not? were not serious serious yet but ive never brought someome home with me so want to lol. im 19 by the way and hes 20. any advice on what to say to him and how to bring this up?
thanks!!!!
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If I were you I def. wouldn't bring him home for Thanksgiving. Especially considering the fact that they don't know about him. And you have to think of the arrangements. Would he be staying for dinner or over night? Your parents aren't going to want to keep someone that they've never heard about overnight. If you would really like him to go home with you for Christmas then I would tell your parents about him and let them know what he's like and then I would ask them if it was alright first because you don't want to make the holidays stressful because you brought someone home. It's their house so you need to respect their wishes. And if they say that they don't want him there for the holidays then I would wait til they were over and suggest a dinner where they could meet him. Good luck and let me know how everything goes. If you need anymore help just e-mail me at kimc514@yahoo.com
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Ask him before anyone else. He should get to decide, and you should make it clear that its perfectly fine if he doesn't want to for some reason.
3 months in you guys might be doing fine, but your family isn't going to take the relationship very seriously until you're past 6 months more than likely, and he's going to know that.
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