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confused ex boyfriend troubles
I just found out that my ex boyfriend wants to get back with me. Im so confused becasue my mum doesnt agree with me getting back with him and my dad absolutely wants to kill him because he hurt me before. He dumped me for a girl id known for about a week and was his ex girlfriend. The thing is for some weird reason i do still like him a lot and somehow i have forgave him. It all started off on a rocky patch anyway because of the age difference. We started going out when he was 15 and i was 12, then 3 months later he turned 16 and i stayed twelve. I did turn thirteen two months after that but on my birthday he left me. I dont get it. He says he always thinks of me and that he has had 3 sex dreams about me in the past week alone!!!!! I am 13 now and he is 16. Yesterday he asked me for a hug and when i huggedd him he pulled me onto the sofa so that i was laying on top of him with my head on his chest and he said that he loved me, i could tell by his voice that he was deadly serious. And I said that i loved him. First of all i would like to ask if you have nay advice on getting back with him. Yes or no? And please please please can you give me some advice on how to tell my mum and dad without them going mad and saying that im not going to see him. I want to put it across as im going out with him mum but can you please let me get on with it and be by my side in case it goes wrong because that is all i want, i dont want a lecture. At one point he did mean a lot to me and im trying to make it work again. Please help.
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Hey there!
Ok first of all, it sounds like you've already made up your mind :) you obviously want to get back with him.
Second, if he's ditched you once... it could happen again. Instead of rushing right back into it, why don't you just hang back for a couple of weeks and let him prove to you and your parents that he really wants to be with you. (He'll get in the good books with your parents then)
Third, why don't you sit down with your mum and/or dad and tell them that you still have feelings for him (always have) and your considering getting back with him but your going to wait and see how things go and see if he really can prove it to you that he wants to be with you. At least that way you've shown you've been mature about it and you haven't just rushed back into it. They'll respect you for that.
Good luck... Hope I helped :)
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