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how do i get help for my mother or some advice??
ok well my mom and the rest of my family been suffering becuase i have sister who is like 15 and wants to get her way and one day she didnt come home frm skool we got worried and we reported her missing so about late evening the police called and told us that they had her there with them so we were at church after church we went there they questioned us and my grandpa and we found out alot what she told them such as that my grandpa molested her wen we know its not true!!! my grandpa is a pastor and he very hard working who is hardly ever home and brianna is hardly ever home also she doesnt come striaght home frm skool well she says she goes to skool wen we get a call that she wasnt in skool wen she rides the skool bus so butt i guees she doesnt go...and she also said that my mom beats her wen its not true my mom never lays a hand on her and she also brought up alot of my mom history and the cps, people frm the court are taking her side and the sad part about all this is they took my brother away frm my mom he like 12 yrs old who we barely got to live with us wen he was living in bakerfeild with his dad cuz my mom and hid dad are divorced so yah and my other brothe who is like 5yrs old lives with his dad so yah my 12 yrs old brother lives in a foster home now wich is very sad they wont give him to his either cuz of some of his past also so yah we all miss my brother and are very upset at my sister for doing all this to us my family is very heart borken... i think its wrong that theyre not giving my mom to much help that theyre going agianst her and siding with my sister wen i know how my sister is so anyone out there could tell me some advice i will appreciate it thasnk you very much!!!!!!
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I am not siding against you but someone doesn't say something like that and it not be true. it some way or another it is true. maybe you should talk with your sister in a nice way comfort her a little and find out whats going on.
I am going to college to be a social worker and they aren't going to take a child out of the home unless there is evidence and there must me. just because your grandfather is a pastor doesn't mean he didn't do anything to harm your sister. Quit worrying about what has happened and figure out why. sort have like an investagator. Honestly talk to your sister (nicely)
i am sorry you are going through something like this and i am preying for you good luck.
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Hi there
I hate to burst your bubble but did you ever stop to think that what your sister has said might actually be true??
Everyone deals with things differently and your sister skipping school might be her way of dealing with what could be happening to her.
I'm not accusing anyone of anything here but there are always two sides to every story.
You may not see this as being true because either you don't want to believe it, its never happened to you... and it could be happening when no one else is around.
On the other hand, if however, your sisters accusations aren't true then there must be a reason as to why she is making these sorts of things up. When you tell a lie, you end up telling another lie to cover that lie up etc, she could have been after some attention, told a lie and is now having to cover her story all the time.
She obviously needs help. Unfortuanetly there isn't much you can do until your sister comes clean if she is lying. If however she is not lying then the matter needs to be taken further.
Sometimes bad things happen to the best of people and it's the way things work. Just remember that none of this is your fault. You did not prevoke any of this and you shouldn't blame yourself. The situation was out of your control.
If your mum is down and depressed over the incident then suggest to her some councelling perhaps.
Hope I helped. Goodluck :)
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