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best friend, boyfriend, to nothing?
i had this ex boyfriend, who turned into my best friend let's call him, neil. and the thing is that, 3 years of us being best friends after... we liked each other again. so we were about to go back out until things went wrong. when we were 'dating' or 'talking' however you want to put it. he just started working at this new place and i found out that lately he's been flirting with other employees and grabbing this one girl's butt. so it went all awkward after that, but he didn't take it that awkward... so instead of sitting with him lately at school, i sat with our friend.. let's call him, ben. and then if it wasn't for neil... i wouldn't have sat with ben or gotten to know ben alot better. so then i started liking ben more. and it was right in front of neil's face that i started to like him, because i've been holding hands with ben and sitting with ben and everything. but apparently he said "best friends could hold hands too" -___-" so then he finally found out, that i liked ben now and i didn't want to be with neil anymore. and neil got quite upset and said that i should've forgaven him about the things that he did at his work place. i guess it's both of our faults, that neil shouldn' t have done that at his work place, if he didn't.. i'd probably be standing here holding hands with him instead of ben. but it's my fault that i should've forgiven him, but he knows that i had some trust issues from my ex. but that's another story, so let's not get into that. so since four days ago, i've been going out with ben. and turns out that neil isn't mad anymore, but lately he's been ignoring me. so i asked our best friend let's name him 'bob' and bob, he says that neil doesn't want to see me. i don't know why, and if he's not mad anymore... he still must like me. but then, i've been hearing he's been trying to get girls a grade younger than us. so i don't know, anybody have any idea what's going on? and what i should do?
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Neil probably feels jelous and doesnt want to see you or talk to you because it will make him want you more and feel more jelous so you should just leave him alone until he's ready to talk or see you but for right now just be the best gf to ben because he likes you so dont consentrate too much on neil and have fun with your life because wats over is over and wat here now is all that matters good luck :)
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