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bestie walks away
there's this guy i've known for 3 years, and i've always saw him as a best friend but he's always liked me... well not really, he goes to one girl and then if they leave him he comes back to liking me basically... later on.. he stopped talking to me because he got tired of me getting a new boyfriend, and he thinks that he's about to be my boyfriend and then i get new guy. i don't understand what makes him think like that... i've always seen him as a best friend, so he walked away from me the second time. i don't want to keep on trying to get him back if he keep walking away from me. the thing that upsets me is that every single girl that has walked away from him, i was there.. but this time, he walked away from me. he said he didn't want to be my friend anymore and that he didn't need me in his life. i can't control my feelings, plus because the time he had ignored me i liked this guy .. who is now my boyfriend since yesterday, because he finally asked me out. what am i supposed to do?! do i just let it go or something?
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It sounds to me like he can't get past his feelings for you. That's a hard thing, I don't blame him, but if he's going to act childish about it, let it go. You've made it clear that you don't want to date him and he needs to accept that.
It may hurt to cut him loose like that, but sometimes that's what you have to do. He'll come back, and you can take him back if you want, but I wouldn't want that kind of static in my life.
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Ya i think the best thing to do is just let it go obviously this guy wants you to be his gf but if your not interested and he gets mad about you being in a relationship with someone he isnt worth being friends with so just dont worry about it just be happy with your bf eventually that guy will find someone to go out with too and move on so just enjoy the time you have with your bf good luck :)
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