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My boyfriend...
So i have been going out with this guy for about 5 months now, and hes my first boyfriend. I never pictured myself going out with a boy for 5 months when im 13. I can still stay in this relationship, but has it been too long? But i really love him. I was telling my friend the other day that i want to break up with him just becuase we are going out for a long time. She said to do whatever i want. But im really stressed about it and asking myself so many questions! Like, what if another boy likes me but isnt going to show it because im already going out with someone? Will he get mad at me for breaking up with him because its for a stupid reason? So just a little bit of suggestions would help! thanks in advanced =]
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it is a dumb reason to break up with him.
if you think its dumb then hes most likely going to think the same thing.
think about it...
what if another guy wants to ask you out after you break up with your boyfriend but he finds out that you break up with guys just because.
and yes i understand you are too young. and the longer you are in a relationship the harder it is to get out of one.
well just do what you think is best.
even if it does mean breaking someone else's heart.
what truly matters is what you think and feel.
you dont want to be in a relationship when you actually feel like you dont want to be with that person.
because then you will be lying to yourself and to your boyfriend.
hope i helped and wish you the best of luck.
-litt0lkv :)
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If you don't want to go out with your boyfriend anymore then you don't have to. It's very normal for young relationships like yours to not last very long and it's natural you'd be curious about who else is out there.
If you'd rather be with another boy or single instead of with your boyfriend then that is a good enough reason to break up.
It's important when you're 13 to not get too serious with a boy because you're new to love and dating and it's healthy to take things slow and casual.
But just so you know, anyone you ever break up with will be mad at you for it. No one likes being rejected. But that's part of life. Some times you'll get dumped and other times you'll do the dumping. Just be kind about it and tell him you're ready to end the relationship because your feelings have changed.
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