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he isnt 18, first of all. and he wont be till like, march. and by then i will be 14,not that it makes it any better, i know. but i dont think I wrote my question right...
See, me and him have known each other for a while. I guess you could call us good friends. But we drifted apart when he was15 and became friends again recently. we became friends again BEFORE the whole window incedint (which happened accidentally at first)
I know it doesnt really sound like it makes sense that a 17 year old would even want to be friends (or anything) with a 13 year old. But im pretty sure it doesnt (and never has) bothered him. He KNOWS I wont have sex with him, but i let him fantasize about it anyway, which i know he does. But we have being doing a lot together lately, and i think he genuinly cares about me. not just getting in my pants.
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Ok.
Do not give men fantasies about you.
Yeah, sure its flattering. I'm sure at 13 knowing an older guy whacks off thinking about you seems like a good thing, it makes you feel like an adult.
That being said, being a tease is almost as bad as a girl who has sex to gain acceptance. One girl spreads her legs, the other makes guys think she might, but both are not respected because they are sexual objects.
The point about you being able to land him in jail is still true. You are too young and he is too old at this point, its not a good idea. And whether you "know that he knows" you won't have sex with him, the kind of hopes you are giving him are cruel and unfair.
Whether he cares or not, he is still going to WANT into your pants, and you aren't old enough to do what he's ready for. Conflicting desires.
Be his friend. No more shows. Lower your blinds and stop leading him on.
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