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how soon to have sex
i just started dating my boyfriend about a month ago how soon is it to have sex with him i dont want to have sex with him to soon.
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It really depends on the relationship and the people in the relationship. Some people feel that they're ready to have sex after the first month while others like to wait 6 months to a year before having sex for the first time. My suggestion would be to just make sure you're ready and whenever you feel that you're ready to have sex, then go for it :) Also remember to consider the other person's feelings on the situation when deciding when you're ready to have sex. They might have a different feel on it. Also remember to have some form of protection before thinking of having sex, It's always nice to be prepared. Hope I helped!
-Ellie
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This is really dependant on a few things. Are you of a legal age? Are you sure you're ready?
As long as the answers to the above are 'yes' then it's a judgement call. With my boyfriend, I waited four months, because he was my first and I was always certain I wanted my first time to be for love and nothing else. But everyone is different and as long as you are secure in your relationship enough to know that sex won't risk ruining what you have, then why not?
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It just depends on how ready you two are. Age has something to do with it as well, but whenever you both feel comfortable is when you know it will be okay. Make sure you have a condom with you so you reduce your risk at pregnancy and STD's. Stay safe and follow your heart.
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you should wait until you are absolutely positive that you are ready, and when you think about your decision keep in mind that only your opinion counts. dont let him pressure you into having sex if you dont want to. if you do choose to have sex with your boyfriend usse protection!
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I'd say wait, because at this point it's still lust. I'm not saying that you don't like him for his personality or anything, but I know someone who didn't wait and had to go on anti-depressants when her boyfriend broke up with her another month later after their 4 month anniversery (when they had sex). So I say just wait until you truly know his personality, etc
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Too soon is just an opinion. You'll know when you should. :D
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