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New to New York... no friends


Question Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 5:43 pm

I recently moved to NYC. I have only one friend here, and it's become shaky.. as explained in another question of mine.

I need friends.. I need people to talk to. I need people to hang out with and laugh and have fun with. I don't have any friends here. I'm totally new.

I've never been super sociable before, and I've never really known much about clubbing and going to bars and parties. I don't go to college just yet, and I only recently got a job.

How can I go out and make friends? I want to be around people with similar interests as myself (my job is totally unrelated to my interests), and if I'm lucky enough... find something romantic. I want to meet people, and have a social life.

What should I do?


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Additional info, added Saturday October 11 2008, 7:37 pm:
I'm a guy, by the way... and the one friend I have it's kinda shaky right now. We're having a bit of problems..

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Dakizah answered Saturday October 11 2008, 9:29 pm:
It would probably help if you were to join some volunteer work to help people. There you could meet people who have similar interests and eventually work on becomeing friends. Another thing that you could do is simply start a conversation with your coworkers if you notice something that you have in common such as a dislike of a boss. Eventually you'll have a few friends.

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ella15 answered Saturday October 11 2008, 7:16 pm:
you said that you have one friend there then i would try to hang out with her on her free time in public and try to meet other people or i would speak to her her friends .or have a girls night out.you can meet people everywhere well, you just moved there maybe when you start going to college you can meet way more people be social say hi always have a smile on your face be open try to go to the parties thats on campus be involved.dont worry its impossible not to have fun in nyc.i wish you luck *

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