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what to talk with guys about
what are some things to talk about when you're just getting to know a guy that you're attracted to? i dont want to be boring or have long awkward pauses (which always happens) so im kind of nervous
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The best way to feel more comforable when talkng to a guy that you dont really know, but want to know better. I find it alot easier to talk to a guy when I am own my own turf so to speak. A place that you feel comforable the most. It also helps to have a close friend that likes to talk alot you know te ones that are never quiet. Its easier to have other people around in the beginning until you get more comforable and know him enough to be yourself. Having other people their keeps that silence gap from becomming an issue of feeling weird. If you have a mutual friend that kindof of knows you both that would be ideal for this situation. Once you feel more comforable around this guy it will all come natually and you wont feel like your forcing conversation. Everyone is nervous at first with anyone new, and it just more difficult when you like them. This to me seems like an easier transition for you until you feel more confidant and have the confidance to do it on your own. I hope this helps, let me know how it goes..
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Easiest route is to talk about him, not you (unless he asks). Family, friends, activities, classes, what his favorite sandwich consists of, anything really. Avoid MySpace, make-up, and teddy bears. Ask him what he likes and act interested in it.
Eventually he'll ask you about yourself... and that's when it's okay to talk about you.
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well you can ask the guy what he likes to do for fun.i mean dont be corny.but im sure somewhere in there..a good conversation will get going..ask him how he likes school..or does he have any sibilings.or what movie does he like...you'll find some conversation.dont be nervousss[[:
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