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Trouble with Friends
Me having a lot of friend problems these days. . .
I hope you can help! :D
The story is:
I have a two friends and I LOvE them both dearly. One friend, she like my sister and the the other friend I love to talk with her and like play around with her.
You see the friend i see as a sister hates her because she think she's annoying or something.
The other friend doesn't know that.
By the way, the other friend has a friend named C and she my friend too.
C told me that she doesn't like the other friend because of something but I forgotted xD but but like she don't like something about her but she can't say no to her cause she a really NICE person so yeah.
When my sister friend heard of this she told me not to hang around with her even though I don't hate her but she told me too. But if she is with C friend then I can but I have to act like I'm hanging around with the C friend.
So the point of this whole thing is my sister friend won't let me hang around with the other friend because she hates her. Even though she hates her I don't. But if I hang around her I think my sister friend will get mad at me and not talk to me because she a sensitive/bipolar friend. Meaning she changes mood.
So, what should I do?
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There are two answers... I'll give you both.
You can do the right thing: Tell your sister that while you love her that you have a right to other friends even if she doesn't like them. Girls your age are fickle and she won't know what to do. Chances are she'll close her trap and just let it go after ignoring you for a while. I'm bipolar, I know how her brain probably works.
You can do the easier thing: Drop the other friend to keep the sister.
Neither will be completely how you want it to be. That's just how like works. It's stupid and it's painful, but it's life... and it never changes.
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This is so tough. Okay. So, I have a problem similar to this. Look if the sister friend is really a friend to you she should understand. It's not fair to your other friend that you won't be her friend because your other friend won't let you. I think in time she should get over that if she's really a good friend. It's really your choice though. Good luck. =]
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