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The first time having sex...


Question Posted Friday October 3 2008, 4:31 pm

Should I be on the top, or the bottom? Please base this answer on which hurts more. And if you have any advice on how to make it hurt less, I would definitely appreciate it.

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kait_1991 answered Sunday October 19 2008, 1:38 pm:
Okay for your first time most people would say bottom but it really depends. My first time i was on the bottom and swapped to being on top. I found it alot easier as you can control the speed and depth alot more if it hurts too much slow it down if your okay speed it up and so on. However if the your on the bottom you should communicate with the guy and tell him if it hurt and tell him to take it easy.

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shelbz7077 answered Monday October 6 2008, 12:53 pm:
I would say the bottom. For your first time at least. It'd be eaiser. If you don't want to do this yet don't though. If you have any doubts I would wait.

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AshNicole...x3 answered Saturday October 4 2008, 11:06 pm:
bottom, would probably be the best for your first time.if your feelings presured don't do it, if he's a good, guy he would wait for you.

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MADISAN answered Saturday October 4 2008, 12:46 pm:
Bottom. And there's really no way of going about making it not hurt, to make it hurt less, just make sure there's a lot of foreplay. Make sure to use protection & if you want, lube.

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AnonymousAdvisor answered Saturday October 4 2008, 9:29 am:
Well, seeing its your first time, I highly doubt you would want to be on top.
I was on bottom my first time, it didnt hurt me at all.
Just have the guy to finger you, & use alot of lubricant, along with the condom.
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