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The Evil shit's got her wrapped around his finger.
Okay.
One of my best friends(lets call her Amanda) has been going out with a guy(lets call him Adam) for awhile now. She's madly inlove with him. She's always got a smile on her face and is always in a good mood, in other words- Amanda is extremely happy with Adam.She was always talking about him before, I could tell something like this would happen. Even though i am the third wheel i am happy for her. I give them space to have time together and then come back some other time, and everything is fine and dandy.
The only problem is Adam.
It's not that i don't like the guy...i mean he does have a bit of history with girls but Amanda is his first girlfriend in a long time. She can deal with it.
But one of my other friends (Sarah) told me that Adam asked Sarah to tell this other girl that he liked her. Sarah told me this and now i feel like I have to do something about it. But What?? I'm NOT going to tell Amanda. it will tear her to shreds.but then again wouldn't you want to know if your boyfriend wasn't really that interested in you? I was thinking about just talking to Adam alone and tell him to staighten up. What would you do??
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I wouldn't do anything, except keep my eyes open.
You don't need to do anything about it.
The truth is your friend Sarah should never have told you, or anyone about it. SHE should have turned to Adam and said 'You have girlfriend dumbass!'.
If Adam asks you for such a favor, you should turn to him and say the same thing.
However, since all you've done is pick up gossip, you need to butt out for the time being. I know it *feels* like you should get involved, but that feeling is wrong. Maybe someday this will be appropraite for you to bring up, either to point out to Adam so he behaves better or to point out to Amanda so she hurts less, but for now, keep it to yourself. It's just malicious gossip.
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