Question Posted Thursday September 25 2008, 5:13 pm
so me and my friend made a huge promise last year that'd i'd stop cutting my self.
she was my only absolute real friend
so she was worth it.
then about two weeks ago i cut my self again.
i got completly guilty so i told her about it.
i recommitted to the promise.
butt now everythings falling apart.
and people think its liek a "pathetic cry for attention"
&& its not. its just gives me a sense of hope and comforting..
i need help.
any other things i could do to get rid of all the pain besides cutting.
i really dont wanna hurt her again.
Talking to a counselor as mentioned below is also a good idea. The thing is that there are people out there who might be able to help you. Don't fight this out on your own if you don't have to. You say you need to find a way to cope with all the pain, but the reality is you shouldn't actually be in all this pain to begin with.
ilOV3YOU14 answered Saturday September 27 2008, 9:33 pm: i know cutting probably feels good to you so why don't you do something that does make you feel good instead of that find a hobby that you could do with your friend and tell her your sorry once more also try talking about it with a school counselor or someone you can trust
good luck! <3 [ ilOV3YOU14's advice column | Ask ilOV3YOU14 A Question ]
05natalie05 answered Friday September 26 2008, 10:21 pm: Ok, so I am just going to suggest a few things for you to do.
1. You could maybe talk to a proffessional about all your problems and get some help.
2. If you don't want to see a psychiatrist/shrink/counseler then maybe you could talk to your friend about your problems or someone else who you love or who is close to you.
3. If you don't want to tell ANYONE then you could write it in a diary or an online blog thingo.
I hope this helped, and I am sorry for any spelling mistakes ;)
And don't forget counselers are there for you to talk to, they were trained to do their job right and help you. If you don't have one at school then maybe you could call a help line or go to an actual phsychiatrist (Shrink). [ 05natalie05's advice column | Ask 05natalie05 A Question ]
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