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ex boyfriend to current boyfriend
there's this guy, that i've went out with about three years ago. but we broke up, but then we're best friends right now. and seems like our fire is about to be "relight", he confessed to me two days ago that he liked me again... and i'm not going to lie, i'm starting to like him again too. but the one that gets me curious, is that would this ruin our friendship or something? it's just a risk i should take.. but then, he just started his job at this one store, and there's this trainer.. who's a girl.. obviously. he says that he can see himself liking her, and he can also see himself liking this other girl too. and i was like "then why don't you go for her?" (he doesn't know that i like him again) and he goes "because i like you more" i'm not sure if i should keep my eyes on him.. because i've been cheated on before, and he knows that. but he's like "do i look like the kind of person that would cheat?" no he doesn't, but then it's a first time for everything right? he JUST NOW started the job, i don't want to go back out with him and he starts liking her.. if you know what i mean.. what should i do? and what's YOUR opinion on this?
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Hi,
you didn't state in your question the reason for your break up. This could answer a lot of questions for you. If the reason was serious, does it still apply now?
I could be wrong, but it sounds to me as if he is enjoying his freedom, especially if he feels comfortable telling you about the other girls that he likes.
Working with someone that he is attracted to will be a definite temptation for him, so I say that if you want him you'd better tell him before one of those other girls does and you lose out.
Maybe that's what he meant by his comment about him liking you more than the other girl. He might have been trying to give you a hint.
It's hard to tell. YOu should definitely talk to him about how you feel. I hope I helped.
Good luck,
Ediemarie
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