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talking behind back


Question Posted Thursday September 25 2008, 2:54 am

i know i shouldn't be worrying about this, and that i should forget it. but i don't know why it's bothering me. i'm a high school student, and there's this girl in my dance class.. let's call her "Lenny" and i didn't do anything to "Lenny" at all. but lately, i've been hearing that she's been talking behind my back.. and making up lies, she's been saying that i have STD's and crabs and all of that, which is not true. and i don't know her, AT ALL. all i know is that her name is "Lenny". it's very suspecious that she knew who i was before i knew her. because, she knows my enemy and my ex boyfriend.. and my enemy is my ex boyfriend's best friend. and it was weird because she was asking weird questions like "do you like her?" and etc. and i said that me & my enemy didn't become enemy's because of my ex, it was because of our own personal reasons. and she changed it all up saying that i didn't like her or anything. i KNOW that talking to her about it wouldn't work, because it's high school.. everything is different.. and plus if i confront her, she's going to refuse it all... especially since i don't know her. it's kind of bothering me, and even when i try ignoring it.. i can't. because my friends are hearing this and they know it's not true.. that's all it matters.. but i hate the fact that people talks about me, when they don't get to know me. what should i do?

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JustSomeone answered Friday September 26 2008, 2:39 pm:
shes pry doing it just to start drama becuase she knows your enemy and your ex. so they're all 3 probably bullshitting you, maybe not your ex, depending on what kind of a guy he is. anyways, if you don't want to confront her, maybe have somebody else do it. or have one of your friends that are "cool" with her talk to her about it and see what the deallll is.

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