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unsure...
17/f
first off, i love guys, they're pretty much amazing. especially the hot ones. and i can list so many great things about them.
well, sure i love guys, but i've been payin attention to girls also for a long time. like if i think she's pretty, i can't stop looking at her. and boob size doesn't mean much to me, but when girls where low cut shirts, i find that attractive. i even have a friend that is gorgeous no matter what she does with her hair or clothes and i love hangin out with her. but thing is, i can never find myself ever being with a girl or going out with a girl. it would just seem too weird to me.
could i just be curious? how can i get myself out of the habit of looking at girls?
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That is so common. Girls look at other girls sometimes, not because we are attracted to the person. A lot of the time it is because we can see ourselves wearing what they are wearing, even sometimes you can be amazed at how beautiful someone is. It could be admiration, you sound like you admire your friend for being beautiful no matter what she wears. Sometimes it is envy (you don't sound like you have that problem). You can just pray about it, with GOD all things are possible!!!!
Think about how amazing guys are and their masculinity, the facial hair, the deep voice. Think about the guy that you have a crush on. You are 17 it sounds like admiration. Be comfortable enough with your sexuality, you can be straight and think that someone is pretty. Plain and simple. Hope that this helps!!!!!!!!!!!!
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this is definetly common. i have a friend whos really pretty and i always look at her and i think shes really attractive. and just like you i could never picture myself with a girl and i know that i love guys so much more and im positive that i'm straight....just because you think some girls are attractive doesn't mean anything really...us girls look at other girls, thats just the way it is and its completely common in straight girls. to get yourself out of the habit, just try to concentrate on what guys are wearing and how attractive they look and not so much on how other girls look because im sure other girls look at you as well.
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It sounds to me that your just curious. Coming from a guys perspective I don't think it's strange that you notice all these things about girls. I think as a rule people are always attracted towards other attractive people. It's a genetic thing I think, because the people that have better genes have easier lives. So naturally we are attracted to be within that crowd of people. At least in our materialistic culture that we live in. You can see it if you go to any high school, and just look at the clicks, and who hangs out with who.
If you get sexually aroused by it then it's whole different story, but It's not at all weird to notice someone or think someone is hot from either sex.
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