Member Since: September 20, 2008
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Last Update: September 26, 2008
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17/f
first off, i love guys, they're pretty much amazing. especially the hot ones. and i can list so many great things about them.
well, sure i love guys, but i've been payin attention to girls also for a long time. like if i think she's pretty, i can't stop looking at her. and boob size doesn't mean much to me, but when girls where low cut shirts, i find that attractive. i even have a friend that is gorgeous no matter what she does with her hair or clothes and i love hangin out with her. but thing is, i can never find myself ever being with a girl or going out with a girl. it would just seem too weird to me.
could i just be curious? how can i get myself out of the habit of looking at girls? (link)
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It sounds to me that your just curious. Coming from a guys perspective I don't think it's strange that you notice all these things about girls. I think as a rule people are always attracted towards other attractive people. It's a genetic thing I think, because the people that have better genes have easier lives. So naturally we are attracted to be within that crowd of people. At least in our materialistic culture that we live in. You can see it if you go to any high school, and just look at the clicks, and who hangs out with who.
If you get sexually aroused by it then it's whole different story, but It's not at all weird to notice someone or think someone is hot from either sex.
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I have a boyfriend in another school and he's just the sweetest and i love him. But theirs this guy in my school who i think likes me i accidentally kind touched his hand so he thought i was trying to hold his hand so he kinda grabbed my hand and i couldn't let go so we kind of held hands. Anyways theirs this cute guy in science he trys to talk to me sometimes but im usually starting the conversation but the thing is i like alll 3 guys. For diffrent reason i have a diffrent connection with each one of them [Please don't think im a player] it's just when i talk to them they give me this special spark thats diffrent and this feeling that is just unexplainable.. Oh what should i do! i can't have them all! (link)
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I agree with the last review. Coming from a guys point of view you really are going to have to decided, cause we don't like to share. The one that makes you the most happy is the one you should be with. It's not like you have to stay with him forever. Otherwise if you really want you could have all 3 of them. Just one at a time if you have the time for it.
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is weed like addictive?
i don't know my friends wanted me to try it with them.
and i know the whole drugs are bad for you.
but we just wanna try it once so we can be like nooo don't do it!!
and someone told me that its good for you?
is it true?
i need an answer fast. please&thankyou (link)
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It's not addictive, but I've seen all to often that it really does alter the way people think. It's not physically addictive, but it can be mentally addictive to some people. My room mate in college did it so much that if he had the money he would do it at least 3 times a day. So I would say that he was addicted. People often use it to self medicate themselves into a state of lazy bliss where they can forget about there problems. I don't smoke it myself, because I see how badly it affects some of my friends. Lots of them would take it when they had problems with girls or classes. It puts them in a docile trance.
There have been studies done that show that it causes depression as well if you take it long term. I believe this completely because everyone I know that smokes it I would not consider happy. It's honestly not gonna hurt if you try it a few times even, but just know that in the end it causes much more pain then it ever causes you to forget.
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Okay so i like this guy and i dont understand. we were talkin about dating and he was going to ask me out. so he said but then he just completely stopped talking to me. i have no idea why but i miss talkin to him and i no he reads all my messages because it says he does he just ignores them. what do i do? (link)
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Coming from a guys point of view. There's two possible reasons why. Either he has something to hide, and feels guilty so he doesn't want to be with you or he just is intimidated by the thought of dating. I think it's the second one myself. I think he just got cold feet most likely. He's probably a young guy and not really sure what to do. If he asked you out and then never followed through it's probably because he feels like he bit off more then he can chew. A girl has done the same thing to me once...
If he's avoiding you I would just let it be. It's not worth it if you have to work just to get him to notice you. You should try your chances with someone else that really loves all the attention you can give them and gives you it back. Trust me it's much better that way.
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My boyfriend and I are celebrating our 2nd year of dating next month.. and I was planning to recreate our first kiss. We had our first kiss at a small lake by my house, at the very end of the dock. He is definitely the sensetive type, so I was planning on laying a blanket down, lighting a few candles, and filling up a basket with chocolate covered strawverries, and maybe some of his other favorite fruits... and a bunch of other sensual foods :)
I was wondering if you had any ideas of what else I should do. I don't have much money, or much time because I'm busy with working and college class, and other things like that... I'm willing to do as much as I can, but if you guys have any ideas of foods I can add in the basket, or any other things I can do to make it more special, please let me know.
I'd appreciate it :)
By the way, he just recently moved a state away to college, so it's difficult for me to see him as often as I used to, which is why I wanna make this extremely special.. but I cant seem to put the creative twist into it.
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So coming from a guys point of view I think that this is pretty amazing all the stuff you are doing for him already. I wouldn't add more stuff to the basket because he's gonna feel like he has to eat everything that's in it so as not to offend you. It sounds like the more important part of the whole situation is to recreate that feeling you both had when you first kissed there, and he's gonna realize that too hopefully.
Something you could do that any guy loves!! is to cook him a good meal afterwards. Of course it's not entirely creative, but there's no way he won't like it. This could be the perfect way to conclude a nice evening...
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