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my boy friend is weird and i need help
uh well me and my bf started dating ova the internet ( msn) and i didnt no what he looked lyk.im not sure but he says he loves me and i believe him and i like him too.but we went to the beach , lagoon thingy and i stripped down to a tight bikiny and short board shorts. i thought he might get lyk u no how we all show off in different ways well that was mine but he took no notice, he looked a few times but when we went for the water he swam away and then when i fianlly got close to him we layed in the shallow water and i held his had close to my chest. i dono what else to do to make him want to do stuff with me ( not in that way ) lyk doing stuff as in holding hands kissing that stuff but he dosent seem to show interest. plz help me im 13 and female.sorry bout the long question!
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he probably hasn't hit puberty yet, so he doesn't have the urges to kiss and stuff like that.
girls usually mature faster then boys.
so thats probably why you want to.. im sure he will hit it soon though..
goodluck in the mean time
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Hi,
sweetheart I know it feels really good to have a boyfriend and really like him, but he is much too young to be thinking about how to kiss you and how to hold your hand. Boys are just not put together that way at that age.
When you came out in your tight bikini, I'm sure he liked it, but he probably had no idea of what to do or think about it.
I know some kids your age are doing that and more, but you don't have to be one of them.
Let things like that happen at the appropriate time. Don't rush this time in your life.
It's nothing wrong with having fun, but try concentrating on activities like going to the movies, the arcades, skating, bowling. YOu have plenty of time for everything else. Hope I helped.
Good luck,
Ediemarie
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