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Sexiling when your roommates don't approve...
So I have a friend with benefits who has a girlfriend.(She suddenly decided to deny him physical contact of any kind) I know that's against some people's morals on here, but that's what it is. Anyway, my roommates know that there is chemistry between the two of us and that we both want one another, but they do not approve of him hooking up with me while he's in a relationship. Basically they're being really strict about him coming over. We all have our own rooms and share a common living room, but when he comes over they won't let the two of us go into my room alone. Is there any way to compromise with them? I'm getting really frustrated.
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I would say that you need to go to his place if your roommates are being really pushy about their beliefs. I too have done the same thing you have...just make sure you do not become emotionally attached to this guy because he is very much so emotionally unavailable. If you are fooling around with him in an attempt to one day have a relationship with him...it won't happen. He is just a jerk of a guy who's really horny but loves his girlfriend too much to leave her for you (the person who sexually pleases him). If you are in it just for the sex....then by all means go ahead and have fun girl! I've done it...it's no biggie without emotions!
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The problem is not about morals hun, the problem is that sleeping with a guy who just had his relationship go sour in such an immature and stupid way is just not very smart.
It's asking for drama. It's asking for stress. It's asking for misery.
There is nothing about this situation that would lead a brain-dead zombie to think it would go well. What you are suggesting, is a bad idea.
I don't blame your roommates for not wanting that bullshit in their home. I wouldn't want it in my house.
If you want to behave badly, (and yes, sleeping with someone who you know to have an agreement with someone else to not sleep with others that IS behaving badly) why not go do it in his apartment, or even the mall for a make-out session, and respect your roommates enough to not put them in such an uncomfortable and drama-filled position.
Of course, you are probably an adult and can do whatever the hell you want. Shove him in your room and lock the door. If you are going fool around with him, and everyone knows it, then there is no reason to be subtle. They probably won’t physically get in your way if he comes in; you grab him by the scruff and maneuver him directly into your room while declaring your intention to ravish him... They will simply find someone else to live with the next time they have a chance.
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