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how? how do you ask a guy out without seeming desperate?
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well just act causual and natural...be friendly and just relax...and be just like hey do you want to hang out sometimes...something like that... ]
You have to be casual. I think the best way's over texting (but only if you two text alot!) or to just ask him in person. Like, make eye contact with him a couple of times within a day, a few days, etc. Then, when you see he's not busy with a friend or someone else, walk up to him, make eye contact, smile, and say, "Hey, i was just thinking that maybe we should hang sometime. Like, we could go see a movie?" Again, you're asking him out, you're not telling him.
good luck (:
kitty ]
Well that is a really good question. Here is what I would do. DO NOT ask him out in a note, on IM, or in an e-mail. It's immature and it makes you look like you aren't serious about dating. I suppose over the phone would be alright but I think the best choice would be to ask him in person. Also, don't make a second grade mistake. When you ask a guy out do not ask "Will you go out with me?" It just isn't right, you are asking if he will be your boyfriend before you have even gone on a date. Try instead, "Hey ____ got any plans this weekend?" to test the waters then enter in with a "Cool, maybe we could go see ______ together." Or something like that. Also, I know this seems obvious but make sure you actually like the boy, and that you have talked to him before, so he's not thinking "why is this random girl talking to me??" Well good luck and I hope I helped!
xoxo
katwashala ]
just say hey maybe ask he like see a movie sometimes with group of freinds. or plan a outting or getting together and invite him come along. something like that ]
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