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I love you two I didnt mean for any of this to happen. I wish none of it had... but it did okay well hmm ok i will call them max and dane. Okay so I am perfectly happy and loveing my life completley in love with my boyfriend dane me and dane have been together for quite a while when I meet max and i begin to like him to me and he likes me well we became great friends but i decided i didnt wwant anything bad to happen and i was getting to close to max and i dont want to breakup with dane so i made a mistake and told max i didnt want to be friends anymore and i hated him and that i wanted him to hate me but i lost him and i know i shouldnt but i wamnt to at least befriends with him and he wont answer th ephone so i keep emailing him and saying im sorry but he wont say anything back, but then i still love dane and he has no idea about max. what hsuold i do?
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If you love your boyfriend so much then why are you so scared to "accidentally" fall in love with someone else. You are young...you are not married to Dane and if for some reason your friendship with Max would blossom into an even better romantic relationship for you then why are you worried about it? If you loved Dane as much as you think you do...you wouldn't worry about falling in love with Max and you wouldn't worry about being close friends with a guy.
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Saying that you don't want to be friends with Max, and then saying sorry really wasn't the best way to do this. I would go to his house and apologize to him in person, e-mailing and texting are good and all, but they don't mean anything unless the person says it directly. And tell as to why you suddenly broke away from him in the way that you did (i.e. you were scared that you would fall in love with him and leave Dane).
I don't think that there is any need to tell Dane about this. This little episode doesn't really affect him, it's only about you and Max.
I hope this helped,
triquetra ]
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