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how can you tell if a guy likes you?
okayy so i really like this guy even though i met him a week ago but i know alot about him. he seems layed back and nice. i feel really comfortable talking to him. i shared stuff with him that i usually wouldn't with a guy that i new longer than that. how can i tell if he likes me? can i tell by the way he talks? or what he says? i really dont want to mess this up...
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Guys are so confusing. To be honest, they are the hardest subject I've ever had to deal with.
That being said, you can never really know what's going on with a guy unless he tells you. (Which sucks, I know). But, usually if a guy likes you he constantly talks to you and asks you questions about yourself that most guys don't. (Like about your family, your life, etc.) Also, the guys I've dealt with usually tend to do whatever I'm doing. Like, if I was going somewhere, he'd follow just to be with me.
Like the other columnist said (which is really good advice), guys tend to touch you casually if they like you, but not necessarily in a sexual way.
Again, it's hard to tell, but if you have a feeling that a guy likes you from the way he acts, then he probably does.
Good luck!
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Hey!
I'm going to give you a list of what guys tend to do when they like girls:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
If you like this guy- and he does all or most of those things- my best bet is that he does like you. That means one and only one thing: Ask him to make sure, and then try the relationship out. Who knows- it could be great!
--Jack
(16/m)
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