Ok so there is this guy that I think I like and he is really a good guy and I think he might like me back but here is the thing...he has a kid... and he is 16 (I'm 16 too) and I don't want to get into bad situation to were my parents are going to flip because he has a kid and I'm afraid that if I do go out with him that is going to be like way serious see I'm a really laid back type of person I like to have a good time and I know when to be serious... I just don't know if I can do that all the time and also I don't want him to be pressuring me to do anything with him because I'm not that type of person I am still a virgin and I'm not afraid to admit that but I just don't want him to expect me to have sex with him just because he has done it in the past... I really don't think he would do that but you never really know... What do you think I should do??
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Sunday September 21 2008, 1:43 pm: Dont worry about sex. If it comes up tell him you are a virgin and you are not ready if he doesn't under stand that you two are not meant to be together. Also just because he has a child he doesnt expect you to have sex with him i have a child who is going to be 2 and i dont expect that from anyone. you are old enough to make your own decisions in a relationship and tell your parents that you are still a virgin and you plan on staying it for some time and they have nothing to worry about he made the choice to be a father that has nothing to do with your parents. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
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