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my friends boyfriend
ok dont think im a slut cause im pretty far from it....but i do kinda feel like one cause i love my friends boyfriend and he has told me that if i really want him all i have to do is tell him and he would leave her for me. i think that is so mean to do though. i could never bring myself to do that to her. i love her as close as a sister and i have told her how i feel about him and showed her some of the txt messages that he sent me so she knows about it and she has talked to him about it and he denied that he would leave her. but we are getting pretty close and im scared to hurt her. another thing is that when i confessed to her she told me that she wasnt to worried that she trusted me and would never believe i would hurt her like that but its driving me insane i love him i really cant help it but i dont know what to do.........HELP
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Get hold of yourself! He is your best friend's boyfriend! And it isn't only wrong to be getting flirty and intimate with him, but you're falling for him too! So stop this conversation with the guy, let him know that your friend is more important to you, and as much as you would want to, you won't! It is immoral! Get over him and start moving on, talk to other guys, keep busy! Remember he is your best friend's boyfriend! And ask yourself, would you mind if that best friend of yours started getting intimate with your boyfriend?!
And talk to your friend, tell her that you won't date him, but you just don't think he is a good guy, because he doesn't mind leaving her for you, which shows he has no loyalty and feelings for her, if he did, he would care about hurting her and never say something like that. Let your friend know that you feel this way because you care about her, and that you wouldn't get with him after they break up. Just tell her, let her know, don't expect anything, she will think and feel for herself!
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i think you should take some time & think who's more important?
1st of all if the guy is telling you he'd leave her 4 you but denying it 2 her face then i dont think he would or wants 2 loose her. If that was the case he wouldent have lied & said it was true 2 beggin with.
& your friend ;if shes a real friend & she knows your happiness is next to him & his is next to you then no matter how much it hurts her she would have 2 let him go.
but it pretty much comes down to you because you have 2 pick between whats more important...your friendship with this girl thats like a sister to you or the guy that you say you love. think wisely because eigther way one is to loose.
If i was you i would let the guy go & move on 2 someone whos free or at least someone whos not with one of your friends. I mean i know it would hurt YOU real bad but it sounds to me like hes fake his word isint anything.
its up to you tho goodluck<3
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Don't.
Love is an adult emotion. I say this, because part of being an adult is self control, and love requires that of us.
You don't just love him. You love your friend as well. And years from now, you would regret compromising that love.
Guys will come and go. I've "been in love" several times throughout my life. I have most definitely liked friends whom I have never dated but wanted to, and I've fallen for one or two of them in the process.
But friendship is friendship, honor is honor, and in the end its far more worthwhile to be the kind of person who controls herself for the benefit of those she loves.
If they break up in the future, and stay broken up for a few months, you could reconsider. I don't recommend before a few months because you don't want to be the rebound.
Do what you know is right. You can't go through life blundering into other people's lives because you have feelings too. Especially friends.
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