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what a soulmate really is?? can he be my best friend....


Question Posted Monday September 1 2008, 10:40 pm

i have this guy friend and i've known him all my life since i was a kid. i just was wondering could we be soulmates because i watch dawsons creek and i watched the series finale the other day and dawson and joey said that their soulmates.

but what does that mean?????? their in love or they know everything about each other inside out.
i know that sounds wierd but he seriously is always there. and he was there through my breakups. and everything, we always say i love you and hes like my brother but not by blood.

just want to know what a soulmate really is or am i just fooling myself.



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LOL_x0x answered Tuesday September 2 2008, 4:23 pm:
The term "soulmate" has so many different definitions, and everybody has different opinions when it comes to the idea of even having a "soulmate". Some people think it's the person you marry and spend your life with; others think it's the friend you've known all your life. And there are others who think it's all a joke.


Personally? I think everybody in the world has a soulmate, and it isn't always the person you end up falling in love with. Though, I'd assume that's what happens a majority of the time. I think that a soulmate is just the one person in the world that you honestly, couldn't imagine your life without.


Have you ever heard the saying: "It's not about who you've known the longest, it's about who never left your side"? I think that's what a soulmate is, somebody who never left your side. It's that person you turn to when you need a shoulder to cry on, or somebody to laugh with. I think it's the person who you have the most in common with, and who you know the most about [and who also, know the most about you as well]. The person you just "click" with, and get along with so well it's scary. But that's just my opinion on the matter.


As for your situation, I think you and your friend could definitely be soulmates, but I don't think you'll know for sure until you're older. If he's the person you think of when reading the answer to this question, though, then it's definitely possible.


I hope this makes sense and/or helps =]


-Laura (16-f)

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xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx answered Tuesday September 2 2008, 1:58 am:
A soulmate isnt neccessarily anything or anyone, you can choose to believe it or not. A soul mate hs different meanings to everyone.

To me, a soul mate is someone who makes you feel complete, someone you dont see living without. If you think this guy is someone really special to you who makes you smile when your sad, and is someone your just happy you met, then sure hes your soulmate.

A soulmate is whatever you want to think it is.

I mean, you could even say that everyone has more than one soul mate.

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