jbponedme answered Monday August 25 2008, 9:23 pm: hey, ok when my friends or family or anyone are sad or having a bad day, i talk to them, and ask if they would like to talk about it, and what i can do to help them. my best saying that i always say to them is "god wont give you anything you cant handle so pick your head up high and know you can face it, the world keeps going round but it isnt gonna slow down for you,you have to be tougher then it." i also start quoting jonas brothers, cuz they really inspire me with everything and all my problems, and i know they insire other people also.
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heybbylovee answered Monday August 25 2008, 8:11 pm: when my friend has a bad day, i first ask them if they would feel better if they talked about it because sometimes people don't want to. if they begin describing the situation, i tell them that it's not their fault and that i'm always there if they ever need someone to talk to. i let them know that things will always work themselves out, or offer a different insight on their situation. don't just say "aww it's okay" like actually get to the bottom of it and ask, "so why are you so sad about this? what would you have done differently? how will you fix it now (what steps will you take now in order to resolve the problem)?" [ heybbylovee's advice column | Ask heybbylovee A Question ]
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