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Q: 19/female. i've always been a skinny girl, i'm about 5'6 and weigh 120lbs. the thing is, i have cellulite on my legs and butt :( its SO unattractive that i don't want any guy seeing me in my underwear! i'm jealous of all those girls who have a smooth looking body, i dont know how i got cellulite and i dont believe there is a way to get rid of it other than surgery or whatever, and i'm not going that far. i just don't know what to do :( it makes me so self-conscious.

well first you sound like your in pretty good shape like skinny to be 19 and only 120 pounds.. i know one way that might help you. its different results for everyone but you can try it.
ok before you go to sleep get that plastic wrap stuff and wrap it around your legs or butt or whatever it is you want to be firm and sleep the night in it. and do that everynight. you can probably use it during the day also but i think that would be kind of embarassing! well i hope this helps. and it works!! goodluck!
xoxo
megan

Q: i have a really hard time trusting guys, let alone anyone. i can never tell if a guy is truly interested in me or just using me. i've like my good friend for about 4 years now, without telling him because i don't know if he just wants me for sex.

Reasons he might actually care:
-everytime i ask him about a guy or say something about a guy he will basically diss on the guy and be like oh my god he's ugly or he's not for you.
-when i'm sad, he can always tell.
-he always thinks i don't tell him EVERYTHING about me. he always says "why dont you tell me anything anymore!?"
-every time i see him and either one of us is about to leave, he'll give me a hug
-he always flirts with me when i see him
-he always texts me first
-he's the ONLY guy i trust

Reasons he just wants sex:
-last year he would try getting down my pants but i wouldn't let him because i wasnt ready, but he doesnt try that anymore!
-he will randomly text me saying "wannna fuck" or saying something and then be like "i'll just fuck you;)"
-he's felt me up before, but i liked it:)

i mean, he's never told me i'm hot, cute, beautiful or anything like that so i don't know how he feels! and when he says like "wannna fuck" i'll reply back like hell yeah:)! so he knows i'd have sex with him so its kind of like me saying that its okay for him to say that to me. we've never done anything though! not even kissed. he texts me that, but he doesnt act on it. i have a feeling if i did have sex with him i wouldn't regret it because hes the only guy ive trusted, ive known him for so long and i feel like he genuinely cares about me, but then i have those doubts...

what do you think?

hmm.. well alot of guys thats all they want is sex. so i understand were your coming from. you said you have been friends for 4 years now, maybe he does like you. and the sex thing comes along with any relationship if you guys really love eachother or are comfortable. maybe him saying all that and trying to touch you and put his hands in your pants is his way of seeing how you are with guys. like maybe if you just let him put his hands he would be like nah i dont want her she probably does that to every guys or will let anyone get in her pants. guys have a funny way of looking at things. his texts are probably his way of flirting and messing around trying to see if your even the least bit interested in him. or what you want with him. i think if you like this guy you should tell him. life is short! so live it up. if he likes you back hell tell you also. and the thing about the sex i dont think you will ever know unless you like flat out ask him. dont beat around the bush or try to give him hints. guys are kinda retarded when it comes to those. they want you to just be flat out honest and open with him. no matter how it comes out. for example you can be like, "hey i really like you but some of the things you do makes me feel like maybe you might like me too., but sometimes you have me feeling like you just want sex. how do you feel about all this?" do you understand what im saying.. well i hope i at least in some way kinda helped sorry this is so long! =] goodluck!
xoxo
megan

Q: If a prisoner is transsexual where do you send them? with their old sex or with their new sex?
(Just a question that popped in my mind.)

HAHA! this is an awesome question. lol i never though about it. its kind of like the question...

if a MAN makes himself into a WOMAN and he likes GIRLS does that make him a lesbian or straight??

haha there are so many questions out there that just pop out of knowwere. im gona try to get the answer to both of these though =]

Q: Where can you find real uggs that are like orange,yellow,purple etc? i see them on ebay all the time, but what store do they sell them at? i can never find them.

sorry to be the bearer of bad news but they don't make them anymore UGGS discontinued them so they only way to get them now is if you get fake ones that is what I had to do.

Q: my boyfriend was feeling really down because he has a temporary depression. i prayed to God (i'm Christian) and asked if he could make my bf happy and i implied that i'd do anything just to see him happy, even give up my happiness for his. A week later he dumped me and i've never seen him happier. i'm hurt and i'm just wondering if you think it's the work of God or just a weird coincident.

ok. first. im sorry for your loss. it sucks on your part. well I believe that it was the amazing workings of god. you prayed your boyfriend would be happy and well god made that happen. sometimes its the way he wants it. maybe he has something way better for you. and trust me... "god won't give you anything you can't handle" so just keep telling yourself that. you'll soon be as happy as your ex. hope I helped.

Q: how is babby formed?

how girl get pragnent?

are you being serious? no offence but like everyone knows these days. how old are you?
im just gona come out and say it so you get your answer.... a man and woman have sex. (in case you dont know what that is its when a man puts his penis into the girls vagina)and the mans sperm goes into the woman and both of there hormone things mix and fertilizes or whater and an egg is formed, which then leads to a baby in the stomach
i hoe i helped, if you have any more questions feel free to ask

Q: Okay, so apparently all of the Jonas Brothers (Kevin, Joe, AND Nick) all wear purity rings and vow to be virgins until they are married; however, exactly what religion is/are the Jonas Brothers?

I know some Christians wear purity rings but I'm not sure about other religions or if the Jonas Brothers are just doing it outside of a specific religion. So, do the Jonas Brothers believe in God? If they ARE Christian, could anyone tell me what denomination they are for sure?

Thanks!

they are hardcore christians!
there lives revolve around god, just like anyone elses should. there father used to be a priest =]

Q: Does Kevin Jonas of the Jonas Brothers really have a purity ring? If so, does he really wear the purity ring all of the time? Is it just a rumor that I heard?

If it isn't a rumor, what does his purity ring look like anyway? Does anyone have photos of it?

Can anyone supply me with pictures of Kevin Jonas actually wearing his purity ring if it's true?

Does his brothers (Joe Jonas and Nick Jonas) wear purity rings too? If so, what do theirs look like or are they all the same? Does anyone have pictures of them all wearing purity rings?

So, if they all do wear them, they are all virgins, right?

Thank you!

yes, all three of them decided when they were little they wanted to save themselves for marriage, so they all 3 got purity rings. well there mom asked them, and they all agreed that would be the best. so ya. hmm i dont have any clear pictures of the rings, but i do know nick's ring ses "poned" engraved in it, i dont remember how joe or kevins looked though, sorry =/ but if u have any questions about the jonas brothers id be happy to help you and i most likely know every answer =]

Q: what are the best good saying to say to people when you let them know not to worry or when they having a bad or maybe sad day.

hey, ok when my friends or family or anyone are sad or having a bad day, i talk to them, and ask if they would like to talk about it, and what i can do to help them. my best saying that i always say to them is "god wont give you anything you cant handle so pick your head up high and know you can face it, the world keeps going round but it isnt gonna slow down for you,you have to be tougher then it." i also start quoting jonas brothers, cuz they really inspire me with everything and all my problems, and i know they insire other people also.
if you have anymore questions just ask me, i love to help, and i hope i did...

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i am most of the time a very good person to ask for advice because if i dont have the answer personally i go to my mom or uncle or anyone who has been there or done that and i can get the answer. if you ask me a question be sure you will get the answer your looking for. everything you ask and/or say WILL be confidential!! like how it should be. dont be shy to ask anything. i will help you! im very easy to talk to. and i love to help! dont be scared of those people that tell everyone everything. im not like that i will keep it to myself. =] my lips are sealed! =] sooo what are you waiting for? ask away!