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drugs / sickness. soo sad.


Question Posted Monday August 25 2008, 4:48 am

im making this up bytheway:

lets say theres a guy i know. and he went out with this girl that he really loved.. for A WHOLE YEAR. and suddenly she breaks up with him because... SHE thinks she doesnt have feelings for him anymore.
The guy gets VERY very depressed and turned to drugs for comfort. now i know youre thinking this is very "stupid" and he did not think it through. but he's human. BEAR with me.

Lets say I dont talk to this guy but i happen to know him. because i see him around .. lets say.. at work. i feel VERY BAD FOR HIM. i sometimes wish he was MY FRIEND. so that i could help him as much as i could. i know deep inside he is a very good decent person. [who doesnt need all those drugs.. and to get high]

His friends tried to talk him out of it and he went to rehab. and after a while he got out and was okay for a bout .. 2 months. he did all sorts of good things and even coached a .. basketball team. and he was, again, acting like a NORMAL person.

After a WHIIILLEE, i see him looking like he is hypnotized like just staring at one thing without blinking and there you go again.. he's high. i guess who went back to drugs. just by looking at him makes me think about what he's dont to eff up his life. he needs help. he's a good person.

what do you think should happen next?



P.S.
questions for ANSWERS:
1 do you think he'll turn back to drugs again? and again ? and again? and so on..
2 mis there a chance for him to get BETTER again? ever?
3 will he be like that for the rest of his life or get back to normal?
4 ETC. for additional details you might wanna add.



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ccupcake07 answered Monday August 25 2008, 4:13 pm:
1. Yes, i think he will because if he dosen't get help, nobody is going to stop him.

2. If somebody talks to him (friend, counselor, teacher, parents, etc.) then i think he has a chance of overcoming it and stopping.

3.He won't be like this forever if he gets help and stops doing drugs. Then he will turn back to the person he was before.

Hope this helps!

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Disconnected answered Monday August 25 2008, 9:58 am:
Okay,
1) I think he'll keep turning back to drugs since he's obviously addicted.
2)There'd be a chance for him to get better if he finds something to motivate him.
3)''
4)He needs to do something completly different, make new friends, get distracted + motivated so he won't want to go back to drugs.
If he finds something that he's passionate about and wants to do whatever, then this should put him off drugs.

Hope this helped! :)

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