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break up


Question Posted Sunday August 24 2008, 12:39 am

ok, never mind that last question, im pritty sure im ready to do this, as you may tell, this is my first girlfriend, so im finding it EXTREMELY hard to do. but i tried typin out what i was thinking, and i thought i would run it by you to see if i did anything that i souldnt have said, because you seem to no what your talkin about so here it is

alright, this is really hard, i mean i always new it would be, but i mean, this is really hard. and i really dont no how to do this. but you remember back on how we agreed on that we would have to stop dating sooner or later, i mean, if we dated forever, you would sorta be in the same spot as your sister, but your nothing like your sister, your way better, im jus saying you wouldnt have very much experience with dating and nowing what people you like if you jus stayed with me until highschool. you get what i mean? and i mean, ive not got alot goin for me, i mean, you could kill me if you wanted, so im really tring not to hurt you. but for the past week or so, ive just kindof stoped likeing you as much as i used to and my mom said that i should never go out with someone that i didnt love, and thats sorta the reason ive not been wanting to talk, i was trying to figure out what to do, and after talking to my mom, she says that i sould stop dating you, BUT i would freaking love it if we could be friends, like good friends, just not dating friends, and i no that your not ready for this, but i am, and weve had AMAZING times together, it may be nice, to just get to be single for awhile. but you are very beautiful and and have and AMAZING personality and im sure that youll end up having more boyfriends than i will girlfriends cuz of that. so please dont hate my guts for this, but i just think that its right, and it has nothing at all to do with you that i dont wanna go out any more, and youu have no idea how hard its gunna be for me to hit that send button...


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sin_c_chic answered Sunday August 24 2008, 9:54 am:
You did really good! I think that you are telling her everything that you need to tell her. Keep in mind though that some girls look at it as a slap in the face when you break up with them in a letter. They feel that the entire relationship has ended and you can't even tell them in person. I do like that you mentioned you want to be friends. I definitely feel this is the best option for you both! I wish you the best of luck, and yes, you did very good!!!

<3 Leslie

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