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guys at school
ive never had a bf and i relly want one is there some tips on how to get guy to get "friendly" with you and start to like you
not just like be yourslef i know that!!!
something that makes them look at you and go "wow i want that girl!"
thanks
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I was going to copy my answer from a question like this I've answered before, and you'll find it here if you care to look:
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I'm a guy. So therefore I know what impresses guys about a girl. And I know you said not to say be yourself, but if you're not going to be yourself, just exactly WHO are you going to be?
Well the answer is not yourself, and as obvious as that may be, guys do NOT like girls who are acting like someone who isn't themselves.
And if they do end up liking you, they're liking you for someone you're not.
Sure, you can flirt and whatnot, but if that's not something you would normally do, well then don't go so far out of your way.
Relationships as a teenager are mostly pointless anyway, and despite my cynicism, it's very true because they all end after a few months anyway.
What I suggest you do is, if it's in your nature to flirt, flounce, etc., well then go for it and be who you are, but if you're not, well then don't change that. It's perfectly alright to be yourself WITHOUT a boy.
But if you decide to completely ignore my advice [this is, after all, Advicenators], here's flirting tips:
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--Jack
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You should be yourself,because if you act different around a guy your not being true to yourself.As far as i know,guys like it when a girls confident in herself.So walk with your head up high and your shoulders nice and tall act liek you own the place when you come into a room! lol Don't do the acting "dumb" thing that girls do,guys are not impressed by that at all.Find a guy you have things in common with.For example,if you loved the sport football,talk to the guy about football (all guys love football) that's something to start a conversation.If you know alot about something,especially something he knows alot about also you'll score major points with him.Make some jokes,guys like it when a girl has a good sense of humor,if he laughs it's a sure sign he's interested.When you talk to a guy,if he says something funny or your trying to figure out a math problem lightly touch his arm.The guy would think it's a way of you saying "oh i get it" or " that was funny" but your really just trying to find an excuse to touch him ;) When you make eye contact with him,smile! Guys love it when a girl smiles.If you do any of those things i told you,im sure the guy will deffinately be saying "i need to have that girl" :D
♥ danielle
okay...how did you rate me a 1? i mean that makes no sense.
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I have yet to get a boyfriend either. I can attract people who like me but my problem is that I'm picky. But I think the key element is of course how you flirt. First off you need to know what you're looking for. Maybe someone you share a common interest with. Like me for instance, I love guys who're music obsessed so I could talk about that forever and ever and how I get them to go "wow I want that girl" is to impress them with my taste. So just know what you want and know who to flaunt your good taste or good knowlodge or good look ect.
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