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when just about everyone turns their backs on you
I hate this girl and my best friend knows it. Now, Gaby(my best friend) is saying that I'm talking trash about the girl i hate. after that Aubrey, (some other girl) is saying that I called her a backstabbing bitch. Lexi (someone else) is telling everyone I flipped Aubrey off, when I didn't!!! The only thing i said about Caitlyn is that I don't like her and that she betrayed me. What should I do???
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The best thing here is to talk to these people about it. First off Lexi, confront her about it, go to her and say something along the lines of, "Lexi, can I talk to you for a second, i've been hearing that you are telling people that I have been flipping Aubrey off... when I haven't." See what she says and go from there. Just make it clear to her that you did not flip Aubrey off and would like her to stop saying that you did. But what is important here is that you do it in a calm way. Don't make it a big deal. Stay calm and try not to get to angry.
Same thing with Aubrey, go up to her tell her she needs to stop talking about you and accusing you of things. Explain to her that you did no such thing.
Gaby is the one you need to have a serious conversation with. It all seemed to start with Gaby and she's supposed to be your best friend. Best friends don't act like this. Ask her if she has a problem with you hating the girl you hate. And ask her why she is talking "trash" to other people about things you haven't done/said. Communication is key here. Its what has been missing. Just remember stay calm.
Also if you don't want to have a confrontation this will blow over. You just have to leave it alone and not let it get to you. Which can be hard. But I do recommend talking to Gaby. Because a best friend should not have done what she did.
Choose your friends carefully and be careful who you tell things to. You know now that you may not be able to trust Gaby, Aubrey or Lexi.
I hope it works out! Let me know if you need any more help.
Oh and trust your instincts you know these girls better than I do!
Sorry this was so long!
Goodluck!
Don't stress to much! It will sort out! :)
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