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Summer Love


Question Posted Saturday August 23 2008, 7:15 am

here is how it goes. i went on holiday for 2 weeks with my best mate and we met 2 boys. We got on like SO WELL , we all became good friends. Then basically my friend liked one of the boys and he liked her. But the one that i liked didnt make eye contact with me and was moody with me. He went home before me but because i was busy i couldnt say goodbye to him. We got back home and i found out from his mate he liked me. But now im really upset because he didnt tell me. Ive tried to get in contact with him, but he hasnt replied at all. They have a party soon, and we live really far away but me and my friend were gonna make the effort to show up and stuff. But im so confused because why didnt he tell me himself? and there is so much i want to say to him but i cant and i cant get him out of my head ! We live far apart but i need to see him to get things out in the open. What should i do? i just cant stop thinking about him and everything that happened :(
Its ok for my friend because she is contact with her boy. But i have no idea how the one i like is? And the boy my friend was with is friends with the one i like so i could easily get his mate so mention something to him but that is so childish so what should i do? x


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orphans answered Saturday August 23 2008, 3:59 pm:
Yeah if your saying you like him, ddeffffinantly go this party for a start. If your not sure he'll be there, have your friend talk to her guy and tell him to bring him, in like a non-lame way; like she could be like "im excited for the party" and then she could be like wait is ___ coming? and then if yes, thats great. if no, she should say bring him!


Then from there, at the party just be flirty. BUT dont be clingy though. I wouldnt reallky ask him how he feels about you, because how well do you really know him? you could sort of freak him out. You could if it seems right at the time.

Good luck :)

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teardrops7 answered Saturday August 23 2008, 11:31 am:
Ah summer love. Here is what you should do:
If you really like this boy and think there could be something there, make the effort, go to the party, and corner him. Make him tell you what you need to hear. Just say, "look i like you and i just really need to know how you feel about me" straight up. and by corner i dont mean get in his face, i mean get him alone.
-hayley

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